How To Improve My Child’s Relationship With Their Teacher?

A positive student-teacher relationship is believed to have a great contribution on your child’s feelings about school, attitude toward learning, and also his/her motivation for academic success. If your child feels personally connected with his/her teacher, then he/she is likely to show more interest in the academic content presented, display better classroom behavior, and achieve higher academic success.
Furthermore, a healthy connection between your child and his/her teacher will help your child feel safe and secure, as well as give him/her a sense of belonging.

A healthy relationship will also prepare your child to be more successful both emotionally and socially.

There are cases where students don’t have a great connection between with their teachers. In such situation, it’s crucial for their parents to take some steps in order to help their child create a positive and healthy relationship with their teacher. Therefore, this article will provide you with some helpful tips on how to positively improve your child’s relationship with their teacher.

Help Your Child Have An Open Mind About His/Her Teacher

One of the ways to prevent your child from having a negative mindset about his/her teacher is by letting he/she understands the basics of human behavior. Discuss with your child how teachers can be strict sometimes and also playful at times.
Tell your child that many a teacher may appear very strict at the beginning of the academic session and later become friendly when expectations and rules are established. Just make sure you focus on the teacher’s positive qualities during the discussion.

If Your Child Claims Not To Like His/Her Teacher, Figure Out Why

If your child had already had a negative mindset towards his/her teacher, it is very crucial for you as a parent to figure out the cause of such attitude. For children in their early elementary years, there are a number of things that might trigger the negative mindset towards their teacher.
Sometimes, children don’t relate well with their teacher because the teacher “isn’t their Mom or a family member”. This is common among young children who are just getting used to the routine of going to school rather than staying home with Mom or Dad. This new authority figure may lead to anxiety and distress, resulting into dislike for the teacher.

Build A Healthy Relationship With Your Child’s Teacher

It is believed that when children notice a good relationship between their parents and their teacher, they are more likely to trust and respect that teacher as much as a family member. Therefore, one of the most effective ways to foster a healthy relationship between your child and his/her teacher is by also building a good relationship with his/her teacher.

Teach Your Child How To Overlook Things He/She Finds Annoying About The Teacher

Remind your child that the teacher is a human being and that everyone is a little different. Let he/she understands that the teacher needs to do things in her way in order to establish control and authority in the classroom. You can use your child’s siblings as an example, talk about how their personalities differ, and then encourage patience on your child’s part. Also, ask for his/her thoughts on how to help make things easier.

Visit The Teacher If Things Don’t Improve Over Time

A parent-teacher conference may be necessary if your child’s relationship with his/her teacher does not improve. Meet with the teacher and discuss what’s going on in the classroom, also provide the teacher some helpful peeks into your child’s home life. By discussing the issue together, you may be able to know the cause of your child’s trouble and reach possible solutions.


Although, it may take quite a bit of work and time to improve your child’s relationship with their teacher, but through collaboration with the school’s administration, teachers and even the pediatrician, everything will be just fine and your child will be on track for a successful school career.

Bright Economics teaches Economics Tuition in Singapore. Click here to find out more.